For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory; While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.
Paul, beaten and shipwrecked, calls his troubles light only next to the glory to come. Your pain is real; it is just not the heaviest or the last word.