A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
A real friend loves at all times and is there in the hard ones.
The best-known Bible verses about friendship are Proverbs 17:17, John 15:13 and Proverbs 27:17. The Bible treats friendship as a gift and a calling: “A friend loveth at all times,” and the greatest love is the one that gives itself for its friends. These verses describe true friends, from David and Jonathan to Jesus calling His disciples friends.
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A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
A real friend loves at all times and is there in the hard ones.
KJVA friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.
A real friend loves at all times and is there in the hard ones.
Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
The greatest love is the one that gives itself for its friends.
A man that hath friends must shew himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
Friendship asks something of you too, and some friends stay closer than family.
Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.
As iron sharpens iron, good friends make each other better.
Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you.
Jesus calls His disciples friends, not servants, and tells them what He has heard from the Father.
I thank my God upon every remembrance of you,
Paul, writing to friends far away: every memory of them turns into thanks to God.
Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
The Preacher praises companionship: two are better than one, they lift each other up, and a threefold cord is not quickly broken. Many couples see God as the third strand.
So they sat down with him upon the ground seven days and seven nights, and none spake a word unto him: for they saw that his grief was very great.
Before they said a word, Job’s friends sat with him on the ground for seven days. Sometimes being there is the help.
Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.
Friendship in two movements: share the joy, and share the tears.
And it came to pass, when he had made an end of speaking unto Saul, that the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.
Where the friendship of David and Jonathan begins: a king’s son and a shepherd, their souls knit together.
Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man’s friend by hearty counsel.
Honest, heartfelt advice from a friend is as welcome as perfume.
And Ruth said, Intreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I will lodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God: Where thou diest, will I die, and there will I be buried: the Lord do so to me, and more also, if ought but death part thee and me.
Ruth’s vow to her mother-in-law Naomi, now a classic vow of faithful love: where you go I will go, your God will be my God.
Bear ye one another’s burdens, and so fulfil the law of Christ.
Carrying someone else’s burden is the law of Christ lived out, and it is meant to be shared, not carried alone.
Faithful are the wounds of a friend; but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.
A true friend’s honest words can sting and still be faithful, while flattery can hide ill will. It is about truthful words, never permission to hurt.
He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed.
The people you walk with shape you: walk with the wise and you grow wise.
Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.
Paul quotes a saying of his day: the company you keep shapes the way you live.
In Scripture, a friend is someone who stays. “A friend loveth at all times, and a brother is born for adversity”: friendship shows itself in the hard seasons. Ecclesiastes gives the practical reason, “Two are better than one,” because when one falls, the other lifts him up. Job’s friends are remembered for their long speeches, but their best moment came first: they sat with him on the ground seven days and seven nights, “and none spake a word unto him.”
The Bible’s great friendships cross lines. Jonathan was the king’s son and David was the rival his father feared, yet “the soul of Jonathan was knit with the soul of David.” Ruth, a Moabite widow, would not leave her Israelite mother-in-law. And Jesus measures love by friendship, “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends,” and then tells His disciples, “I have called you friends.”
Good friendship is also honest. “Iron sharpeneth iron,” and “Faithful are the wounds of a friend”: a true friend will sometimes say what you would rather not hear. That proverb is about truthful words given in love, never permission for anyone to hurt you. Proverbs also warns that the people we walk with shape us (Proverbs 13:20), and that repeating a matter can separate close friends (Proverbs 17:9).
If you feel friendless right now, the Bible knows that too. Psalm 88 ends with “Lover and friend hast thou put far from me,” and in Gethsemane Jesus asked His closest friends to keep watch with Him, and they fell asleep. Friendship is something Scripture asks us both to seek and to give: start by being the friend you hope for (Proverbs 18:24), and look for it in a church, a small group or next door.
Lord, thank You for the friends You have given me, and for calling me Your friend. Make me a friend who loves at all times, who stays in the hard seasons and helps others up when they fall. Give me courage to speak the truth in love, and humility to hear it. Where I feel alone, lead me to people I can walk beside. Amen.
That a true friend is loyal in hard times (Proverbs 17:17), honest even when it is uncomfortable (Proverbs 27:6, 27:17), and willing to give of himself: “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13).
David and Jonathan are the best known (1 Samuel 18:1-3 and chapter 20). Ruth and Naomi (Ruth 1:16-17), Paul and Timothy, whom Paul called his “dearly beloved son” (2 Timothy 1:2), and Jesus with Martha, Mary and Lazarus (John 11:5) are others.
To say thank you: Philippians 1:3, “I thank my God upon every remembrance of you.” To say I am here: Proverbs 17:17. For a friend going through something hard: Romans 12:15 and Galatians 6:2. As a blessing: Numbers 6:24-26.
It takes influence seriously: “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise” (Proverbs 13:20), and “evil communications corrupt good manners” (1 Corinthians 15:33). Stepping back from a friendship that pulls you toward harm is wise, and it does not stop you from wishing that person well or praying for them. If a friend is threatening or hurting you, get safe first and tell someone you trust.
Yes. He called His disciples friends (John 15:15), and John records that “Jesus loved Martha, and her sister, and Lazarus” (John 11:5). He wept on the way to Lazarus’ tomb, and at His darkest hour He asked His friends to stay close to Him (Matthew 26:38).